Being a Solo-born Twin may impact your Finances
Do you experience (on the logical level unjustifiable) feelings of guilt or a substantial lack of self-esteem? Do you suffer from extreme inner pressure to succeed? Do you suffer from perfectionism, from depression to suicidal thoughts, from solitude, and from a wide range of anxieties?
If this affects your life in a negative way, the following might provide an answer, as well as a solution.
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Being highly sensitive
might be a symptom
All the facts mentioned above are characteristic symptoms that a solo-born twin may experience.
They are likewise accompanied by a strong desire for control and a fear of disappointment. On the other hand, strong empathy, perfect attentiveness and being caring, high sensitivity, being an empath, are also typical characteristics of single-born twins. As are extraordinary creativity (which unfortunately often is blocked), the tendency to be able to give better than to accept, as well as a pronounced helper syndrome.
A solo-born twin is someone
who's soul intended to incarnate accompanied by the soul of a sibling as twins, but then was born alone. Because they lost their twin on their way to birth - usually within the first few weeks of pregnancy. This phenomenon is far more common than it is acknowledged to be.
The official medical explanation is called:
"The Vanishing-twin Syndrome"
There were two embryos when the mother had her first-trimester screening, but four weeks later, there remains only one? If so, it could be a case of the vanishing-twin syndrome, which occurs in about five percent of all non-stimulated multiple pregnancies.
One twin passes away unnoticed, possibly due to developmental or chromosomal abnormalities.
The remaining twin physically suffers no harm from the early departure of his twin. It continues to develop as a singleton.
In some cases, physical traces of the twin are left within the other, known as "Fetus in Fetu" (Even Greys Anatomy aired an episode on that)!
Question:
If your twin died and physically everything went well -
What happens on the soul level?
From the first moment of your very own conception as a human being to be, both your body and soul are highly aware of what is happening around you.
As you grow in the womb, you can even perceive how your mother feels physically and emotionally. You may sense a sibling. Maybe you are even triplets!
You can hear and feel the vibration of his or her heart beating right next to you. Your sibling is all close to you. One day, the other one ceases to grow. Their heart weakens, and they die eventually.
You are alone then.
Left on your own.
After being born, a thick veil of forgetfulness covers everything you experienced before.
But - are the experiences that you had back in the womb gone without a trace?
Are you done with what happened?
No, you're not.
The phenomenon of lost twins is a sensitive issue. Much more humans than you will believe suffer from it.
Still, it remains being quite ununderstandably.
The effects of experiencing the loss of a sibling are manifold and often tragically affect relationships, romantic love, professional situations, physical and mental health, even the money mindset.
Once you realize that you are a solo-born twin, a deep healing process might begin. A process that might gradually free you from the existing self-sabotage that has accompanied you throughout your entire life - as a matter of fact, since you were born - alone.
Suppose you dare to face it and allow yourself to get assistance. In that case, comprehension can arise from it - a deep understanding of yourself, your feelings, emotions, physical reactions, and other solo-born twins.
As long as this heavy trauma of early loss remains unrecognized, it has a persistent and mostly destructive effect on almost every aspect of the single-born twin's life.
Within partnerships, the solo-born twin seeks his or her significant other in vain because no other person can replace the lost twin. This results in a tendency to symbiotic relationships in co-dependence, triangle relationships. As well as in dissatisfactory long-distance relationships and unavailable (e.g., married) partners.
Career-wise, the solo-born twin is torn between their extremely high demands towards themselves and self-sabotage, which hardly allows success!
Out of the unaware urge to live the life on behalf of their lost twin, a great versatility arises, which usually results in taking up several professions or being "multi-passionate."
Regarding character development, the solo-born twin remains the eternal seeker, which, in fact, provides a wide range of possibilities.
However, they can only benefit from their continuous expansion of consciousness: first, if they are aware of their situation, and second, if they experience healing from their original trauma.
There are often problems concerning health and well-being, which partly result from the longing to complete the unconscious wish to die of the lost twin.
The living twins misunderstand the "call" of their sibling, the star child on the other side of the rainbow bridge, who does not intend to say: "Come to me!", but: "Get in contact with me!".
This is important because this phenomenon runs in families and, according to the law of resonance, attracts others who are also affected.
Also, the mother and father have lost a child. The whole family system is out of balance while missing a piece.
Time doesn't change a thing.
Take action!
To enter the healing path, we need to know the definite knowledge of the actual facts. In addition to that, there are various beneficial techniques, tools, and (to address the inner children as well) a variety of playful games that help to acknowledge the loss and the fate associated with it.
Once you're there, there are simple methods to turn the given circumstances around for one's own good.
All this also applies to third triplets who have lost one or two triplets.
From my personal experiences, I can honestly report:
It is never too late.
How will you know?
I'd recommend a
• Family Constellation.
• Psychic Reading.
• Contact to the deceased soul in the hereafter.
As I offer all of it, I'll be there for you.
